3 Main Reasons Why Most Relationships End Up Failing

In the world today, divorce is fast becoming a norm. The rate is at an all-time high.

Long term relationships are getting fewer by the day.

Breakups happen for a variety of reasons, but these are the key 3 you need to look into:

1. No communication.

This is a relationship killer, it kills the relationship gradually but yet aggressively. Lack of communication in a relationship might be as a result of different. Sometimes we don’t want to hurt each other with our words, sometimes we don’t want to create conflict, and worse, sometimes we just don’t care to communicate talk less of communicating our feelings.

However in a long term relationship it is necessary to keep the fire burning, keep the lights up and keep the channels open..

2. Not actually being in love.

For some reason, it’s hard to define how love feels. Or better still, how do you feel or think you feel when you are in love? Do you feel warmth inside? A sense of strength in your partner?

Falling in Love and Being in love is not a one time, one moment thing, it is attained.

It’s definitely a little different for everyone, but many relationships don’t end up getting into that deep love you see in people who have been together for a really long time or that pictured in the so called Love soap operas.

3. There’s no trust.

We live in a world now full of internet dating/ dating sites, where it seems to be a lot easier to hook up with little or no effort in stressing your motives to the other person;

 This and some other factors has made it so easy to cheat on your partner and as such easy to conceal this act of trust breach.

 That distrust can bleed into other parts of life too, from finances to long term plans to the character of your partner.

Ultimately, I would like you bear in mind that you are in control of all 3 things and in other words, can choice whether to make your relationship work or not.